What do our dreams mean if they mean anything at all? — Dreams. What do they mean if they even mean anything? Vivid dreams are not uncommon for me. When I retell my dreams to friends, they’re impressed by the details and story. Most of them don’t remember what they dreamt or if they even dreamed at all. I’ve had bizarre and…

The relationship between food and my body could use a whole lot of help. — It took some time for me to finally admit this. Not only to myself but out loud. It’s no secret to those that know me. Those who can see the physical changes over the past few years. What I do in private, shows in public. Binge eating. I have an…

I am her. I am she. Whoever that woman longs to be. — Identity — Who Am I? This question surprisingly had me stumped. I started a draft only to delete it. Writer’s block. Hesitation. Intimidation. But in life, there is no backspace or delete. I am nobody, and I am somebody. To one they love me. To another they dislike me. Someone…

Existing in the land of in-between with undetermined thoughts and feelings. — Last month I received unexpected news from the doctor. My test came back abnormal. The results were undetermined. With no further information provided. Because further testing would be needed. I was left hanging in the dark. In my thoughts. In a sea of what-ifs. The follow-up exam is scheduled for…

He was ready to move on. But I wasn’t. — He was the first to remove his. The band that wrapped around his finger was gone. My then-husband didn’t tell me he would no longer wear it. I only noticed one day passing each other in the kitchen. By that point, we weren’t speaking. We were only existing and tolerating…

There’s a balance between being nice and feisty. One can’t survive without the other. — Being a b*tch feels so much better. Freeing. I’ve realized that you can be a b*tch while also loving, kind, and wanting rainbows and butterflies. Being a b*tch is also about wanting harmony. Being a b*tch is also about healing, compassion, and forgiveness. Being a b*tch is necessary because otherwise…

There is no shame in seeking advice or resources. — I need a good therapist. But wait, before you scroll away… There is nothing wrong with seeing a counselor or therapist. There is no shame in seeking advice or resources. It is healthy and wise to take care of your mental health. …

Forging friendship and love where you least expect it. — I love a good love story. I love witnessing a good romance. I love being happy for those that have hit the jackpot and found the one. Be it a new partner or a lifelong friendship. Love is love. Love is amazing. With the world at our fingertips, it’s easy…

I want the mind-blowing soul connection of loving another person. — I’ve been celibate for three years. It kind of happened by accident. Definitely not on purpose. Time flies when you’re having fun, right? I shared once with my girlfriends that it’s been a while, and they joked and said- girl, you have to keep the engine oiled. But sex has…